by Sally Miller
(10/21/09)
I first found out my feet were sensitive at a massage group held
in the home of a casual yet intense lover of the time.
A covered dish and a beach towel were all that was required that
Sunday afternoon, plus the interest, or perhaps curiosity,
in experiencing group massage.
Taking off my clothes was relatively easy—everyone else did, too—and since we
all had less than perfect bodies, mine was no problem. Finding my head
in a strange man's crotch was more disconcerting!
Feeling his soft cock with the top of my head and fantasizing
about his red pubic hair must have turned me completely on,
for within minutes I could feel myself getting more and more aroused,
particularly in my feet. Suddenly I sat bold upright.
The man who was massaging my feet grabbed them and held them tightly
as I began to writhe in an orgasm. When I was finally quiet,
he chuckled, "My wife used to like that, too."
Another time, when I was still smoking cigarettes, a lover asked
me if I would brush my teeth before we made love.
He handed me his electric tooth brush, which resembled a tiny vibrator.
I started brushing in my usual manner, but as I continued along,
I could feel something in my mouth that felt like my crotch did when I
was heading for a climax. When I got to the tooth in the front
that had had a root canal many years earlier, I could feel the rest of my body
join my mouth in an intense, rapid orgasm. My lover stood at the doorway
to the bathroom laughing with delight, for he knew from watching me
exactly what had happened.
Others have watched me come from nipple stimulation, back massage,
and head stroking. I wasn't born with my current sexuality—it developed and
matured along the way, with the help of interested partners and my own
growing ability to let go, to accept whatever pleasure came my way,
no matter how far out.
We all have the potential to respond to a variety of stimuli,
including fantasies, pictures, shapes, sounds, smells, words,
tastes, talking, touching, and being touched. As well as objects,
body parts, power, romance, clothing, role-playing, pain, silence, and money.
Whether you want to spend your life learning new responses, staying with one
tried and true stimulus, or experimenting with a variety of sexual partners
and/or sexual desires, it is your choice, your life to live.
Finding someone to share your choice can often make things more intense,
or more satisfying. It's up to you.
