by Danton Grey
(07/21/10)
Sooner or later (hopefully sooner) there comes a time in any newly-minted relationship when you want to make The Move. You've been together several times now, and licking her cunt has been a wonderful experience. Literally full of wonder -- her folds, ridges, and hollows are unique to her, and new to you. Taste and scent have combined to overwhelm your senses, and you think she's enjoyed your attention also. But now it's time to make The Move.
As you're thrusting your tongue in and out of her vagina, you slide your tongue downward, licking broadly across her perineum. She doesn't flinch -- so far, so good. Another couple of thrusts in and out, then downward across her perineum again, a little lower this time. She moans, and now you're feeling hopeful. You stay there for a few beats, massaging the area with your tongue, before returning to her vagina. She doesn't seem to be tense or uncomfortable, so after a few more thrusts in and out you return to her perineum for the final warm-up. Licking broadly again, you slide your tongue downward, catching her anal rim with the tip of your tongue. She moans louder now, so you decide to go for it, sliding your tongue down much lower to give a broad lick across her asshole, and ...
You're there! Yes, yes, YES! She's letting you worship at the altar of ass. Hallelujah! She pulls her knees toward her chest, giving you easier access, and you give her back door your full attention. You snake your tongue around her rim, and you alternate this with lavish strokes in her furrow. She tells you she loves what you're doing, and with this encouragement you press the tip of your lingua di amore into her hole. Delighted by this new intrusion, she yields to your probing tongue, a triumph of lust over reflexes.
Afterward, she tells you she was dying for you to make The Move, and you know this is going to be a beautiful relationship.
Later you think about Sasha, your former girlfriend. You were hesitant about any activities involving anal insertion, but she encouraged you to give rimming a try. She taught you that a tongue is the perfect anal instrument -- self-lubricating, firm but not hard, yielding but not soft, generally narrower at the tip, not long enough to cause panic, and stays attached to its holder. She taught you that rimming improves with practice (as with all activities), and she practiced with you often.
She taught you how to practice your lingual dexterity when she wasn't around by curling up your index finger to the base of your thumb (placing the tip of your finger into the web part), then placing your lips against the side of your curled-up finger and extending your tongue into the opening. She taught you to practice making small circles with the tip of your tongue as well as thrusting your tongue in and out. She taught you to loosen or tighten your curled-up index finger to vary the resistance your tongue may encounter.
She taught you never to force your tongue where your lover doesn't want it to go. She taught you that by gently swirling your tongue tip around your lover's rim or using the broad part of your tongue to give broad strokes across their back door, there's a very good chance a reluctant lover will find that this feels exquisite, and relax for further explorations.
She taught you how to practice receiving a rim job, also -- that when you're in the shower cleaning the area (because cleanliness is very important for an enjoyable experience), stroke the rim of your asshole on the side closest to your tailbone (the side farthest away from your perineum). She taught you that this tends to relax the outer sphincter, so you can rub your soapy finger just inside (but not past the second, inner sphincter because this will irritate the delicate tissues within).
Most of all, she taught you that rimming is one of the most erotically charged activities you can participate in, whether giving or receiving -- and she taught you that rimming in a 69 position is mind-blowing.
