reviewed by Bill Noble
An erotic poem may not actually be as great as really great sex, but it's
better than a poke in the eye. Here are two passionate anthologies from two
poles of the sex-positive world. Passionate Hearts is loving, sensual and
erotic, happily heterosexual, and full of heat, lots of it from major poets.
Between the Cracks is cheeky, transgressive, edgy, pansexual. Its writers
come from the poetry world and from the fetish zines, but stretch to include
Ginsberg, Michelangelo, and Edna St. Vincent Millay. Bring condoms and a whip!
Here's a poem from Passionate Hearts, "The Surge" by Molly Peacock, that
says those simple things we all feel but don't find words to speak. It starts
out:
Maybe it is the shyness of the pride
he has when he puts my hand down to feel
the hardness of his cock I hadn't tried
by any conscious effort to raise
And here, in a first stanza from Kim Ly Lui Burton, is the condensed
directness that poems can give us:
Look at Me
you answered, when I held you
with my arms and sex,
when I said you could come, when
I asked what you wanted.
Look at me.
My opinion? This is the best anthology of erotic verse in print. Galway
Kinnell paints transcendent oral sex on a rock in a lake in "The Last Gods."
The well-known San Francisco poet Kim Addonizio magically mingles the
juice-streaked flanks of a doe, two fawns, and the poet's breasts in "Alone
in Your House." In "New Mother" Sharon Olds translates the gritty,
half-terrifying intensity of first lovemaking after childbirth straight into
the reader's body. My favorite erotic poet, Jane Hirshfield, in the title
poem from one of her collections, "Of Gravity and Angels," gives us desire in
an overwhelming erotic flood--
I want the long road of your thigh
under my hand, your well-travelled thigh,
your salt-slicked & come-slicked thigh
and
the suddenness of you
opening
all fontanel, all desire, the whole thing
beginning
for the first time again...
Here for contrast, from Between the Cracks, is Pat Califia in a poem about
fisting:
For a split second,
You open
Like a balloon being blown up,
Like the tunnel that runs
Beneath the curling lip
Of an oncoming wave.
Or Gavin Dillard in "Notes from a Marriage":
It's no secret that he
loves me--
I beat it out of
him every nite
Or "On Being Fucked by a Talk-Show Panelist" by Ali Liebegott:
. . .squeezed into a cab/with the dyke porn star,/the
lesbian stripper,/and the bisexual S/M top,/who when asked why she stays/with
her boyfriend said,/"It's hard to find a guy/who cooks and cleans/and lets me
sodomize him,". . .
You'll find some awful, and intense, poetry in this book, and some awfully
wonderful poems, too. Here's a fragment of an exquisite poem by the amazing
Jules Mann about masturbation. It's called "horse."
you can't sleep.
ride a horse
when you can't sleep.
little finger
slides the reins
Knowing a little about the two editors of these profoundly different books
might help. Wendy Maltz is a sex therapist from Eugene, Oregon. She says in
her introduction, "Sexual interaction based on mutual caring and respect is
very different from sex in which people are objectified and exploited.
Loving, intimate sex can be far more enjoyable than impersonal sex...Sex
is momentary, and sex is transcendent. That's the paradox." Her author photo
is the girl next door grown up to woman, strong, sunny and smiling. Gavin
Dillard is a "porn star, publisher, artist and photographer," shaven-headed
and glaring from the back cover of Between the Cracks. Here's his take on
our urges: "...sexuality is fraught with individuation...sexual anomalies
are the rule and not the exception. As far as what we as a society choose to
make perverse in our mores-du-jour, this is up for grabs."
You might consider erotic poetry as a cost-effective investment! Two books of
dirty stories might provide thirty or forty occasions for delicious
vaso-congestion, but these two books, if your sexual preferences can span
them both comfortably, will furnish more than three hundred. Let's see, twice
a day for six months, divided into...not bad, not bad!
Poetry is one of the ways we sing. And so is sex.
A call for submissions: Wendy Maltz will be publishing a second anthology of
sexual poetry next year. Intimate Kisses has a deadline of Nov. 1, 1999.
For guidelines, send an SASE to Maltz & Assoc., PO Box 648, Eugene OR 97440.